Favorite Books for Elementary-Aged Youth
- Confessions of a Former Bully by Trudy Ludwig (2010)
- Great Books for Boys: More Than 600 Books to Inspire Today’s Boys and Tomorrow’s Men by Kathleen Odean (1998)
- Great Books for Girls: More Than 600 Books to Inspire Today’s Girls and Tomorrow’s Women by Kathleen Odean (2002)
- Friendship: How to Make, Keep, and Grow Your Friendships by New Moon Books Girls Editorial Board
- Have You Filled a Bucket Today? A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids by Carol McCloud (2006)
- I’m Sorry by Trudy Ludwig (2006)
- Just Kidding by Trudy Ludwig (2006)
- My Secret Bully by Trudy Ludwig (2005) www.mysecretbully.com
- Secret of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman (1991). Addresses bullying with courage and love.
- Sports by New Moon Books Girls Editorial Board
- Take the Time: Mindfulness for Kids by Maud Roegiers (2010)
- Too Perfect by Trudy Ludwig (2009)
- Trouble Talk by Trudy Ludwig (2008)
Favorite Books for Middle- and High-School Youth
- Boys, Girls & Other Hazardous Materials by Rosalind Wiseman (2010)
- Bullies are a Pain in the Brain by Trevor Romain (1997)
- Cliques, Phonies, & Other Baloney by Trevor Romain (1998)
- Confessions of a Former Bully by Trudy Ludwig (2010)
- The Curse of the Good Girl: Raising Authentic Girls with Courage and Confidence by Rachel Simmons (2010)
- Fighting Invisible Tigers: A Stress Management Guide For Teens by Earl Hipp (2008)
- Keeping Ahead in School: A Student’s Book About Learning Abilities and Learning Disorders by Mel Levine MD (1990)
- The Kid’s Guide to Social Action: How to Solve the Social Problems You Choose and Turn Creative Thinking into Positive Action by Barbara Lewis (1998)
- The Kid’s Volunteering Book by Arlene Erlbach (1998)
- Kids With Courage: True Stories About Young People Making a Difference by Barbara Lewis (1992)
- Life Freaks Me Out and Then I Deal with It: Reassuring Secrets from a Former Teenager by KL Hong (2005) www.searchinstitutestore.org
- Odd Girl Speaks Out by Rachel Simmons (2004). Fantastic book to help your middle and high school girl understand the dynamics of relational aggression (gossip, silent treatment, exclusion).
- Perfectionism: What’s Bad About Being so Good by Jan Goldberg (1992)
- Queen Bees and WannaBees by Rosalind Wiseman (2002)
- The 6 Most Important Decisions You’ll Ever Make by Sean Covey (2006)
- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey (1998)
- Sparks: How Parents Can Help Ignite the Hidden Strengths of Teenagers by Peter Benson (2008) www.issuu.com/search-institute
- Stick Up For Yourself! Every Kid’s Guide to Personal Power and Positive Self Esteem by Gershen Kaufman and Lev Raphael (1999)
- The Teenage Liberation Handbook: How to Quit School and Get a Real Life and Education by Grace Llewellyn (1998)
- What Do You Stand For? A Kid’s Guide to Building Character by Barbara A. Lewis (1999)
- You Don’t Even Know Me: Stories and Poems About Boys by Sharon G. Flake (2010)
Magazines and Web Sites
- Girls Inc.: Girls Inc.’s Web site offers online activities that guide girls through goal-setting processes, interviews with accomplished women and girls, and educational and career planning services. www.girlsinc-online.org
- Teen Voices: Magazine written by, for and about teenaged and young women. www.teenvoices.com
- New Moon Girls: A Safe, Creative, and Positive World for Girls:
New Moon Girls is an online community where girls create and share poetry, artwork, videos, and more–all in a fully moderated, educational environment designed to build self-esteem and positive body image. www.newmoon.com (for girls 8-14)
- New Moon Magazine for Girls and Their Dreams www.newmoon.com
- Rachel Simmons’ Blog: Noted author and “girl expert” Rachel Simmons has a great blog that focuses on the lives of pre-teen and teenaged girls. www.rachelsimmons.com
Dr. Kathy’s Movie Picks to Watch with Your Kids
- Bad News Bears
- Breaking Away
- Chariots of Fire
- Cutting Edge
- Field of Dreams
- Finding Forester
- Jerry Maguire
- Karate Kid and The Next Karate Kid
- Remember the Titans
- Rudy
Dr. Kathy’s Movie Picks for Boys
- Basketball Diaries
- Coach Carter
- Hoop Dreams
- Hoosiers
Dr. Kathy’s Movie Picks for Girls
- Annie O
- Bend It Like Beckham
- Blue Crush
- Gracie
- A League of Their Own
- Million Dollar Baby




Hi! I’m Dr. Kathy. Welcome to my website! Although Family Empowerment Network is formally closed, we want to keep these resources available to you. Our belief is that parents are the most wise and intuitive about what is best for their children. However, parents sometimes need the support of effective, timeless, compassionate parenting information and strategies. On this website you will find our three parenting books on boys, girls, and kids’ social lives and ten years of monthly newsletter articles. In addition, a powerful, under-recognized resource is the support of other parents. Here you will find how to use our books as discussion guides for monthly self-led parenting groups. One last resource: I am still available to give talks and workshops.
